Silverclarity
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Hi all what’s the best concert you have been to. Mines Springsteen, closely followed by...
Silverclarity 2nd March 2021 at 5:15 pm
Whitney Houston – Wembley Arena – 1986, when she was at the height of her game. Absolutely spectacular. No one to equal that voice. A great loss.
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Dating when you’re over 50
Silverclarity 2nd March 2021 at 5:20 pm
Single all my life but without partner 5 years. Yes, I find them a challenge because people seem so insincere. The men I have chatted to want to know my phone number immediately without even attempting to get to know me over the dating site – I give them a wide berth. I’m not that bothered anymore and still believe if someone is meant to be with me, they will show up in the most unexpected place. That’s me on my own for the rest of time then…..LOL.
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Hi all, new to Restless and to anything like this! Been single for a long...
Silverclarity 4th March 2021 at 1:13 pm
Being anonymous without a photo makes discussion harder.I always like to know who I’m talking to (although you never really can know online)
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Hello I’m new to the group but I would like to meet or get in...
Silverclarity 4th March 2021 at 1:19 pm
Hello Nia, I’m new too. It’s not been an easy time has it?
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I’m a 52 yr old widower. Never had or wanted children. I have a 2...
Silverclarity 4th March 2021 at 1:26 pm
Hi Martin. I’ve been fostering a beautiful dog but sadly she is going tomorrow. Not sure how I will cope. Dogs give so much and ask so little in return. Hopefully the lockdown will start to ease up soon. Lets hope so anyway.
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Is there anyone else who has been inspired my something or someone to learn something...
Silverclarity 4th March 2021 at 1:29 pm
Hello Rhonda, I love chess but haven’t played it for years. It’s great for taking you away for a while – you really have to think ahead. My only option is to play against a computer, which is a hiding to nothing! Enjoy.
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What a swiz!
Silverclarity 20th December 2021 at 6:49 pm
Hey ho. Wouldn’t know what to do with a man anyway…….been on my own so long now. LOL
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When is it “Too Much”?
Silverclarity 17th April 2022 at 4:46 pm
I don’t think age matters. The body ages but minds and hearts don’t – so if you have a genuine connection, enjoy it.
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People, as a rule, know what they would like in a potential partner. What are...
Silverclarity 17th April 2022 at 4:47 pm
Kindness, honesty, GSOH
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Time to bring the Age of Romance to Restless.
Silverclarity 17th April 2022 at 4:49 pm
3,4 and 6
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My wife just came out of rehab for alcoholism, and it feels like my love...
Silverclarity 17th April 2022 at 5:00 pm
Do you feel you have lost your purpose?
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Anybody else unsure what they’re looking for on this site, having bad time in life,...
Silverclarity 17th April 2022 at 5:47 pm
Yes, you are not alone – although we all are.
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It’s not you – it’s me
Silverclarity 17th April 2022 at 6:06 pm
I wouldn’t say it was a waste of 25 years, unless you were miserable for those years. You shared 25 good years.
No doubt you have both changed over those years and are not the people you were when you first met.
People change and if one or both of you no longer feels the same, then time to move on.
I wouldn’t feel bad towards your wife – she has been honest with you.
I’m not being unsympathetic but we are all responsible for our own happiness as is your wife.
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FOXES
Silverclarity 17th April 2022 at 6:11 pm
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My wife just came out of rehab for alcoholism, and it feels like my love...
Silverclarity 18th April 2022 at 10:02 am
Do you feel you have lost your purpose David?
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My wife just came out of rehab for alcoholism, and it feels like my love...
Silverclarity 18th April 2022 at 10:01 am
Oh sorry, that was meant for David
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What are your thoughts on being a first time buyer at 55 with no dependents?...
Silverclarity 19th December 2021 at 10:13 pm
LOL…..always been too honest for my own good. Have morals too so as much as the idea of marrying rich appeals on paper, I couldn’t live with myself….that is why I’m poor….
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Hello I’m new to the group but I would like to meet or get in...
Silverclarity 4th March 2021 at 7:40 pm
Let’s hope so. I’m a little sad as my foster dog of 3 months is going tomorrow. I’ll be a blubbering wreck. 😢
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What are your thoughts on being a first time buyer at 55 with no dependents?...
Silverclarity 4th March 2021 at 1:31 pm
How do I find one of these brokers? Yes, the one I spoke to recently told me I was young at 55! Nice to hear someone say that these days! I joined a ‘first time buyer’ advice group on FB and feel ancient!!!!!!
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What are your thoughts on being a first time buyer at 55 with no dependents?...
Silverclarity 4th March 2021 at 1:08 pm
That is an excellent point. I viewed a house yesterday and said to the estate agent that the viewing should include an introduction to the neighbours. She laughed, but I was deadly serious.
I’m having to look further afield as I can’t afford to buy where I live at the moment. It’s all very scary when you are on your own and have lived in the same house for 14 years. I lost my dad two years ago and he was my advisor – so I’m feeling pretty lost at the moment.
I’m so glad I found this group, and really do appreciate any advice you can give me.
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What are your thoughts on being a first time buyer at 55 with no dependents?...
Silverclarity 4th March 2021 at 1:04 pm
I’m on my own. Been out of work for 6 years and now going back into it. I have been volunteering for 5 charities over the past 6 years, not sitting on my arse.
Hate the house I’m renting as it is so cold and the landlord refuses to do anything. I’ve been here 14 years and want to move – so initially I was looking to rent elsewhere. Rent is very expensive and I realised that I would still have to pay for rent until I die, so trying to work out which would give me more peace of mind. Where would I get the rent from once I retire? I’ve never been materialistic and always been a saver – have lived most of my life on very little money – so now I have some, I want to make sure I put it to good use. All advice greatly appreciated. -
What are your thoughts on being a first time buyer at 55 with no dependents?...
Silverclarity 2nd March 2021 at 7:51 pm
thank you. I’ve read all his info on first time buyers.
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What are your thoughts on being a first time buyer at 55 with no dependents?...
Silverclarity 2nd March 2021 at 6:23 pm
Thank you so much. I have spoken to a broker who has told me all her advice is free until I actually choose her? She really knew her stuff too , but what do I know?
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What are your thoughts on being a first time buyer at 55 with no dependents?...
Silverclarity 2nd March 2021 at 5:09 pm
I would eventually like to retire to the coast and won’t be able to afford rent there – so was thinking it would be better to have bought something by then, so I can sell and move? I’m a total novice with mortgages as rented all of my life.
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