J.A
A single just turned 61 years old still highly driven and passionate about life. My children have grown and flown and I find myself experiencing being alone and getting more used to it now. I am enjoying seeking new adventures.
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J.A 4th January 2021 at 5:30 pm
New year Bunny.. welcome to all of us to this chat. Look after yourself in this difficult times that we are having. Best wishes to you.
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Is it OK to admit that I am lonely on this site?
J.A 4th January 2021 at 9:03 pm
Yes I do know what you mean. But strangely enough I don’t have a solution
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J.A 4th January 2021 at 9:26 pm
Hi Everyone. My name is Jo Ann and I have just joined Restless. I am semi-retired living with one dog.
My children have grown and flown and I now find myself seeking some new adventures. I enjoy music, reading, walking, holidaying, going to gigs/concerts. I also crochet and knit. One of my goals for this year is to attend a craft fair to display and sell my work. -
Hi everyone. I wondered if there is anyone who is renting their home in their...
J.A 6th January 2021 at 10:22 am
I found myself now having to decide which route I want to take as far as housing is concerned. Mainly because of a relationship breakdown. If I want to own again at the age of 60, affordability would probably take me out of the area that I am in now. My dilemma is, do I go for shared ownership or look for something that is specific to the over 60’s such as rental by social services.
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J.A 6th January 2021 at 10:24 am
Good morning Hainsybabes, and everyone. Glad to hear that you are feeling better today. 😀
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Thank you carers.
J.A 6th January 2021 at 10:34 am
Yes, this is so true. How you are on the inside ( Your personality) makes all the difference.
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Am I the only lady who is missing male conversation and friendship!
J.A 6th January 2021 at 10:38 am
Hi Pamela,
You are not alone. It’s been quite some time since I was last in the company of a male. Mostly because I am single and don’t have any male friends.
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J.A 8th January 2021 at 12:40 pm
Welcome Phillipa, No you are not alone in feeling lonely as it has been a really tough time and I am in big hope that we get back to a normality. Dancing around your living room, I will try that. That is a great idea. I like singing but only while I am listening to a fav song. Keep well. jo ann.
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J.A 8th January 2021 at 12:43 pm
Oops! I think that I have responded to Phillipa and Lyndabrownbath within the one message. Sorry ladies, my enthusiasm to respond confused my mind a bit. 😉
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Am I the only lady who is missing male conversation and friendship!
J.A 21st January 2021 at 7:36 am
Hi Pamela, Dermac, one and all, how is every one? Fed up now with having to stay in. I can be with myself if that makes sense but in need of company. It’s really strange that on a day to day basis staying in is fine, yet when indirectly forced to stay in, it becomes much more difficult, especially as it’s dragged on for so long. ( I just had to get those thoughts out. )
A general question, do you have a favourite song, if so which one if you want to share that! Have a good day everyone.
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J.A 21st January 2021 at 7:50 am
Hi Gill B,
Wonderful to connect with you. (Gill are you sure that you are older than me?) ha ha , You are right age is but a number. Yes I do remember that I think more at secondary school we got into the ‘I’m older than you’ ‘ no your not, ‘ yes I am’ debate quite a few times. It was done as a laugh though as we were all friends. time goes by quickly. But really how old, tall, etc is irrelevant, as it’s more about the person you are! My retirement plans are to retire somewhere near the sea, as I always feel at peace hearing the sound of the waves, plus I have a dog and to me walking by the sea is much more healthier than walking round the built up streets.
Have a good day Gill,
Jo Ann
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J.A 21st January 2021 at 7:58 am
Good morning one and all, How are you all or how have you all been. I am getting along ok just a bit fed up now with all of the staying in. Can I pose a question? What is your favourite song?
Have a lovely day
Jo Ann
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J.A 25th January 2021 at 10:30 am
Hi Amanda, yes your scenario of adult/childlike reaction is probably what may be going on. They really are independent so I know now that I have done a good job in bringing them up. They are wonderful people.
Calls can be a bit random and the time difference of 24 hours does not help.
Thank you for your input/response I appreciate it.
Jo Ann
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Hi All, I am fairly new to this site, but I just want to ask....
J.A 29th January 2021 at 2:13 pm
What a great idea. I will have a think about that one. 😀
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Hi there. Here’s question for all you over 50s!! Being of the more mature age,...
J.A 19th April 2021 at 12:00 pm
Hi, I read through quite a few of the replies to the question. And my response is now at my age of 60 and single, I think that if someone did come along and let’s say we got along and understood each other, then that is how I would like it. Having said that I like my own time and being able to make decisions for myself and not have anyone say the opposite or try to get me to do something else.
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Looking to make friends anywhere and everywhere!
J.A 19th March 2022 at 4:25 pm
Hi Tom. Great to meet you on here.
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Hi All, I am fairly new to this site, but I just want to ask....
J.A 2nd February 2021 at 12:18 pm
Thank you Steve.
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J.A 29th January 2021 at 2:37 pm
Exodus61,
I think that the line that a few of you have said is ‘they know that I am there for them’. That seems to be a catalyst saying and really is helping as that is so true. I don’t have to now worry about them so much as they can look after themselves. I don’t mind the chats about nothing as that means at least I get to see them and then nothing sometimes turns into talking about something that is meaningful. 😀. I am learning to have my own life without having to run around, clean, cook, etc for two grown ups. 😀. Although it is taking time to get used to it.
Such wonderful people on this site. Thank you for your response.
Jo Ann
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Hi All, I am fairly new to this site, but I just want to ask....
J.A 29th January 2021 at 2:28 pm
Hi Mand53,
Lock down has been very difficult. Finding a comfortable medium for when children have grown up and flown the nest is difficult as no one said how difficult that was going to be. I never thought that the term empty nesting was real, but it certainly is! I am with you on this one but I have now decided to place myself into more hobbies although that is on hold until this pandemic slows or goes and we can all be social again outside of the home.
Please stay in contact if you wish/want to.
Take care
Jo Ann
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J.A 29th January 2021 at 2:20 pm
DJW Yes perfect sense within your message. I am proud of me as there parent. I know they can look after theirselves because of how me and their dad with the security that we have given them within their growing up. They are fabulous young people. I guess I just miss them. 😀
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J.A 4th January 2021 at 3:05 pm
Lyndabrown. Yes I make blankets, scarfs, beanies, tops, and much more with time permitting.