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As we go through life taking things it throws at us which is not always good , then suddenly this happens which breaks you doesn’t matter how much a hard and tough appearance you put on to protect your love one , she leaves you , we always promised our love would last forever and a day 😭
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But we were joined at the hip always wanted to be together we were not only husband and wife we were lovers, best friends , a shoulder to lean on , a wink and it will be ok Ann was everything I ever wanted , I loved her with all my heart , but now it’s breaking I’m lost lonely and can’t wait to be with her again 😭
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Your marriage sounds beautiful how long were you married, and is there any groups were you live or nearby that you could talk to, it does get a little easier you just learn to cope differently were is it you live.
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Hi we live in the middle of nowhere in a small village in Leicestershire it was our dream place loads of nature , animals and wildlife
We had been together for about 20 years sand married for 15 both had previous marriages which were major mistakes but we rectified that and found true love
But now who knows?? 😢
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How long is it that you have lost your wife i hope you dont mind me asking and what did she do
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Ann died in my arms on 30 January 2021
We both owned a bakery for 30 years and we retired 5 years ago we had such plans !!
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Yes it’s a hard road we travel. I lost my husband just before lockdown. I can barely remember the first few months, I was inconsolable and just wanted to join him. 18 months later I am dealing with it better but I’ve never known loneliness like it. No one can fix it – there’s only one person can do that and he can’t be here. I’ve joined widow/widower forums but obviously there’s nothing been happening. And I’ve just started a bereavement course at our local cancer support unit. I have found this very helpful and met some lovely people who are now friends. And boy do I need friends who understand. Perhaps there’s something like that in your area. Sending love and support x
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I think you know how I’m feeling and boy it’s a really bad experience 🥲
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I’m very sorry for such a loss. You had a wonderful relationship – many of us never get to experience that. Each of us has to find their own way through grief, there is no “right way”. I hope that as time inevitably makes your loss and shock less raw, you will find a way through to tomorrow.
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Our relationship was as close to perfect as you could get, we had both been married before when we were young and foolish which resulted in 5 children between us all grown up now and we treat them all as they were ours .
Ann was and still is the most beautiful, wonderful woman I have ever known 🤙
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