To me, it said, we go through life and continue to make the same errors until we finally realise that the old way was destructive and led to an all pervasive slog doing the same old thing, time and time again.
To avoid the whole means you have finally found a way to stop being in that vicious cycle and boldly try another route, hopefully leading to a happier existence.
Hi. Yes one can fall into a relationship and k ow it’s not going to get anywhere but can’t get out of it for a number of reasons. One can do it again and as one didn’t learn the first time get stuck again and can’t get out. The third time after learning a little from experience one does it again but this time gets out immediately. The fourth time one can see what’s coming and avoids it then goes down another path with eyes open