He found an older, disabled woman to be a parasite on and living his dream in Spain complaining about the heat and living on her money! I don’t have contact with him but hear this through other family members. I did look at dating sites but it seemed to be all about appearances these days and men my own age looking for younger, tall and athletic women so thats not me and I’m not interested now. After 40 years of marriage I’m enjoying my independence and meeting up with my friends which I wasn’t able to do before. I’ve moved forward in another direction which I’m enjoying.